“They Wanted a First Class”: Graduate Cries Out as Family Snubs His Convocation Over 2:1 Degree!

“They Wanted a First Class”: Graduate Cries Out as Family Snubs His Convocation Over 2:1 Degree!

Reported by Marian Opeyemi Fasesan | Sele Media Africa

A Nigerian graduate has sparked emotional reactions online after revealing that his family refused to attend his convocation because he graduated with a Second Class Upper, rather than a First Class.

What Happened

• In a now-viral video, the young man can be seen sitting alone in his graduation gown, holding back tears as he speaks to the camera.
• He claimed that his parents had expected a First Class degree and were “disappointed” with his Second Class Upper (2:1), choosing not to attend the event.
• “They said I didn’t meet the standard. Nobody came,” he said, wiping his eyes.

Why It Matters

• The story has struck a chord with many Nigerians, opening discussions about parental pressure, unrealistic expectations, and the emotional toll on students.
• Second Class Upper is widely considered a strong academic achievement, yet the incident highlights how some families still tie worth to top-tier honours.
• It also sheds light on mental health challenges students face due to academic pressure in African societies.

What to Watch

• Public response from mental health advocates and educational stakeholders.
• Possible outreach or support from alumni, NGOs, or universities to the student.
• Further dialogue on redefining success beyond academic grades.

Citations:

1. Instablog9ja – Viral video: Graduate breaks down as family snubs convocation
2. Twitter: @CampusLifeNG – “His parents wanted a First Class…”
3. TikTok: Emotional clip posted by @GradTearsNg

About The Author

Marian Opeyemi Fasesan

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Marian Opeyemi Fasesan is a dynamic journalist and editorial leader committed to excellence in news reporting and storytelling. As the Editor-in-Chief of Sele Media Africa, she ensures daily operations run smoothly while upholding the highest editorial standards. With a strong eye for detail and deep understanding of audience engagement, Marian coordinates content across platforms, guiding teams to produce compelling, timely, and credible news. Her leadership reflects the heart of Sele Media Africa’s mission—to inform, inspire, and elevate voices across the continent.

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