Sele Media Africa — Lagos: Nigerian music sensation Rema has sparked conversations online after boldly addressing a topic many shy away from — how entertaining multiple women can derail a man’s focus and future.

Speaking candidly, Rema stated, “I’m not about to talk to two or three women about my personal life. There’s too much to me, and giving all that information out is a mistake. Many men fall because they allow too many women into their lives. If a relationship fails, stay single — don’t go around flirting for fun.”

His message was particularly direct to young men trying to find their footing: “You’re broke, yet dating like you’re a billionaire. You’re struggling, but you’re in multiple relationships and see it as a flex?”

The singer emphasized that being surrounded by women isn’t a sign of class — rather, it’s a distraction for men who should be focused on building stability.

Moral takeaway? According to Rema, Not every woman deserves access to you — or your energy.

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David Joshua Oliver

Oliver David Joshua is a seasoned media professional with a passion for impactful journalism and strategic leadership. As the Managing Director and Editor-In-Chief of Sele Media Africa, he oversees the organization’s editorial vision, ensuring high standards of truth, balance, and bold reporting. Known for his sharp editorial eye and commitment to excellence, Oliver plays a key role in shaping the voice of Sele Media Africa across the continent. His leadership continues to drive innovation, credibility, and growth in Africa’s digital media space.

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