“Relocating to America Was the Biggest Mistake of My Life” — Teju Babyface Speaks on Regrets!

“Relocating to America Was the Biggest Mistake of My Life” — Teju Babyface Speaks on Regrets!

Reported by Marian Opeyemi Fasesan | Sele Media Africa

Veteran comedian and TV host Teju Babyface (Teju Oyelakin) has revealed that his decision to relocate to the United States was one of the toughest and most regretful moments in his life. In a candid interview on his YouTube channel, he shared how the move, which he believed would open new doors, instead introduced unforeseen challenges that left him questioning his path. [1]

What We Know

• Teju said that before leaving Nigeria, he was confident the move was “the necessary next step” for his career and family. But shortly after arriving in the U.S., the COVID‑19 pandemic hit, amplifying difficulties. [1]
• He described a period of deep struggle, stating that for about three years he believed he had made “the biggest mistake” of his life — “shot myself in the foot.” [2]
• Teju explained that Americans often overlook the “grass is greener on the other side” syndrome. What seemed appealing from afar concealed countless challenges once he lived the reality. [1]
• In the journey, he shared how the experience gave him a new understanding of a lyric by legendary musician King Sunny Ade—something he had long sung unknowingly but never truly understood until his struggles abroad. [3]

Why It Matters

• The narrative pushes back against idealised perceptions of life abroad, offering a rare, honest voice from a public figure many admire.
• Teju’s story resonates with a large number of Nigerians who have emigrated (or considered it), facing the emotional, financial, and identity challenges of diaspora life.
• It also highlights the complexities of ambition, mental health, and adaptation—which are often glossed over in migration discourse.

What to Watch

• Whether Teju’s reflections spark renewed conversations about the “japa” (emigration) ethos in Nigerian society.
• If he also reveals how his career, family, and mindset have shifted following that period of doubt.
• The reception from fans and other diaspora Nigerians who may relate or push back against his experience.

Citations:

1. The Nation Newspaper: thenationonlineng.net/why-i-initially-regretted-relocating-to-america-teju-babyface/?utm_source=chatgpt.com
2. Information Nigeria: www.informationng.com/2025/10/i-initially-regretted-relocating-to-america-media-personality-teju-baby-face.html?utm_source=chatgpt.com
3. Tori.ng: www.tori.ng/news/314583/i-thought-i-made-the-biggest-mistake-of-my-life-te.html?utm_source=chatgpt.com

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Marian Opeyemi Fasesan

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Marian Opeyemi Fasesan is a dynamic journalist and editorial leader committed to excellence in news reporting and storytelling. As the Editor-in-Chief of Sele Media Africa, she ensures daily operations run smoothly while upholding the highest editorial standards. With a strong eye for detail and deep understanding of audience engagement, Marian coordinates content across platforms, guiding teams to produce compelling, timely, and credible news. Her leadership reflects the heart of Sele Media Africa’s mission—to inform, inspire, and elevate voices across the continent.

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